Losing yourself is easy, it's finding yourself that becomes difficult. Have you ever desired something so wonderful and fulfilling but you couldn't wrap your hand around what it was? Trust me I know it sounds crazy, having such a huge heart with no boundaries in place is dangerous.
Most people believe that it's only your enemies that hurt you, would that make your loved ones your enemies too? No matter your trails, it's important to stay grounded and never allow anyone to bring you out of your character. Being able to overcome all challenges in life, especially when you can't understand why you were chosen is such a huge accomplishment. Torn between relationships and family? God will show you, it's YOU that matters!